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guys im 99 percent sure im bisexual and im like crashing out because i really dont want to be (grew up in a christian home, my family is homophobic) and i have a crush on this girl who has a bf, but we're kinda friends and im genuinely jst waiting for them to break up... (theyve been together for almost 2 years) chat am i cooked?

she/her 

bi 

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old account got deleted, only the real ones remember me

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A r i n a
A r i n aGeneral·8 months ago
@potato  Family or not, you're still you, regardless of your sexuality. And if your family doesn't accept it, can your family really call itself a family? Because you shouldn't hide your sexuality from your family just because they're against it. You should always come first. And if you think it's right to be bisexual, then that's just how it is. (And I know it's easier said than done.)
 
As for your feelings for the girl, I unfortunately don't know how strong your feelings are. But you should always be honest about your feelings and ask yourself if it's worth putting so much energy into this crush? (If you know that she has a boyfriend and has been with him for 2 years.) Otherwise good luck darling! xD
BiNShy
BiNShyGeneral·8 months ago
@potato you don't even have to tell your family, I haven't come out yet but I'm sure my sister knows already and my family aren't religious. Maybe you should move on from that crush though it sounds painful
@potato yes you are fuc**** cooked
Reminds me when i thought i had a crush on some girl and i was really scared that i was bi
But then i realised i just had a friend crush on her, i just really wanted to be her friend nothing romantic lol
@potato instead of going to for a   person who are relationship first found out  are you really 100 percent bi cause some people aren't very sure their sexuality  like  that they attracted to gender romantically but not physically if that is not a case then move on to her  honey find someone who truly love and appreciate your affords