Guys what do I do. I feel so shi***. I miss my ex who's ghosting me. It's already been a week or more I can't remember and he has already replaced me aswell. Yk how I'm sure? The girl who he replaced me with had a c drama in her repost(tt) and he sent me a reel(ig) consisting of the same c drama. Im so messed up its currently 1 am and I'm venting in the comments haha. It's It's agitating knowing that the person whom I loved so much has replaced me while I'm trying to fix myself.i have so many questions; how was I so easily replaced? What did she have? Or so on. We had a relationship of 2 years. Met him in 2023. I wanted to start the new years eve with him and us. Happy nd so on. I remember sending a long paragraph bc he was ignoring me. Consisted of smtg like "text me back after you see this" I didn't get a reply; I saw that he had blocked me in every socials. Now that i think back,he was truly manipulative but I still keep on making excuses. I say I've moved on but ik I'm the one who's desperate and i will accept him once more if he just decides to unblock. Fu** I'm so messed up.
Life always fu*** me over and over. I'm a minor. Yes ik I'm depressed. No,it's not permanent.
@A smart idiot if he moved on so quick then it means he didn't love you at all and or is just insecure within himself and needs someone to love him at all times so definitely don't think bad about yourself and if he was toxic then hold your head up high and smile to yourself because you don't want to date red flags
@A smart idiot Don't waste your time on people like that. You're only feeding their ego if you are reaching out first after your break-up, making it look like YOU were the crack in the relationship. Because if you think about it, if he had really moved on with you, why did he sent those things for you to see in the first place knowing it would mess you up since it has only been a while since you separated?I SMELL A NARCISSIST...
@BiNShy Honestly that's what I've been doing for the past week or so since I've been ghosted; holding my head up high and smiling. But at times,I just miss him and the memories we had. Guess it's just how it's supposed to be. It's so depressing at times & my closest friends are such a bad listener hence I come here. Sorry for the vent
@A smart idiot it's fine, I broke up with my ex about a week or two now and I'm still thinking about him since he was in my life for so long and we had many memories together but he made me unhappy, just remember why you've broken up and well it's only been a week so just block him on everything and let your mind grieve the relationship
@CielKaslana actually my bad for addressing the situation unclearly,he sent those while we were in relationship;technically when he was ignoring me. He would send me such reels occasionally to revive our dead conversation ig. And what you've said is absolutely correct to not waste my time but sometimes i miss him so much and the memories we've had. Hence,the depression. Yes I'm trying to move on,but it happens from time to time. I have so many unanswered questions that I've left unanswered because I dont wanna assume. Sorry for the vent.
@BiNShy I would love to block him haha but he has already blocked me which I called ghosting because he blocked me out of nowhere on every platform. Hence,the cause of my depression. Thank you for your advice tho,I'm so grateful you're replying and reassuring me.
@A smart idiot oh yeah I forgot you mentioned that, ya know what I say? Have some chocolate! It'll only be for a short while where it'll make you feel better but any excuse to eat it isn't a bad one ;)
@BiNShy will do tysm again! You made me feel so heard haha usually I would run to chatgpt or character. ai to vent but I decided to do smtg else and I'm glad I did
@A smart idiot girlll I get your problem but if the person so manipulative and replaced u so easily then I think you should take a 4-5 month of this bs and try to move on don't be desperate because there are many other people there for you don't be dependent on just him and I not saying that get a new bf immediately take your time and recover maybe you might find out that you were the victim of misdeeds and let go but right now focus on recovering if he wanted to he would have texted but he isn't so it's time to give up
@A smart idiot you need to get yourself some self love. He did not replace you, no two relationships are the same and partners are not repleaceable. He is with someone else, someone different starting a new story, not a repleacement. He does not sound very manipulative when you are the one that is constantly reaching out and he blocks you. Just let it go, he did. He probably stuck with you for too long because he did not know how to break up but already had another girl he was interrsted in, that is why it took him so little to start something new. Start loving yourself a littlle more, he clearly is starting something new with someone new, you are not part of his life anymore. Stop stalking him online and sending messages, it is embarrassing, girls make fun of men that do that online all the time. Moving on can be hard but lowering yourself and begging for love is never the answer
