Comment by qubec on yoohoo big summer blow out

@Ivern I wasn't talking to you but the original poster. As long as we agree on "innocent before proven guilty", then we're on the same boat.

Realistically, because we're not them personally, people tend to lean on the identified victimed publicized through the media first instead of figuring it out by ourselves or the reason behind the violent relationship between a wife and a husband using an unbiased source that tells both side of the story. 

I also never said cheating was acceptable or justifiable. You're leaning into something that's called a strawman fallacy, or another way of putting it, you're arguing with a ghost right now since I have never implied or said such a thing. I was talking generally outside and within the realm of manhwa/manga stories. And in those cases, I'm talking about physical violence or abuse in a relationship. In no way am I asserting that cheating was in anyway excusable. I was just saying that the ones that play the victim aren't always the victim.  This goes for both genders, I'm not playing favorites here. That's why I called the OP a sexist.

For your 2) point, there's such thing as inflicting self harm or damaging the scene of where the abuse took place to put charges on the other person. That rarely happens but a couple of big cases do in fact have it.

And by no way am I talking with any influences from any emotional reasoning but rather, I was asserting certain facts and arguments that people would normally neglect to hear because it doesn't supports their right to judge or jail a person when they aren't proven guilty yet. 

Have you heard of "JCS - Criminal Psychology"? You should consider checking it out. One of their video literally got 63 million views and that's just a case on criminals pretending to be crazy or mentally ill.