Garam is selfish and egocentric. Which is funny considering it was other way around at the start. I can't defend him anymore. I can understand his struggles and insecurities, and still believe he is being stupid. Him leaving, not communicating, and deciding on HIMSELF, that they BOTH need a break, when both parties deserve to have a say in this, and decide together, since it involves both. But no, Garam only sees himself. Everything is about him, ,,only he has struggles in this relationship, and ml doesn't really have problems and everything has been easy for him his whole life..". I hate those kind of people, who get absorbed in their own misery, but won't actually do anything for it, just run away from their problems and hurt the people who actually care about them. And the audacity of him wanting being understood, while not trying to understand ml, is astonishing. You are a grown a/ss person, acting childish, but calling the other one childish, when the one who listens, is trying, changing for you, accomodating for you, want to communicate with you is ml, not him.
Comment by strawberrycream on Crossing the Line - Chapter 114
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@strawberrycream woah honey, I've written smtg similar, but ur words are so perfectly describing the situation :))) I agree with u on 200%, MC should really look in the mirror and realize WHAT he's actually doing, and how his "saving the situation" will hurt ML gravely... the last 20 chpts has been a downfall on my opion about MC... I am so angry there's been, is and will be so much unnecessary suffering (bcs of MC)... I just really hope that it will be MC doing the "chasing arc" and not the other way round, ML has done nothing wrong, and it the times he has, he's been doing everything to correct his mistakes and behavior... he's changed so much for MC...so THERE is no reason for him to be the one apologizing or even chasing MC to save their relationship!!!....argh... frustrating!!
@Terru_chan you are completely rightttt!!! glad we agree with each other, i think this angst was unnecessary, it should ended with last season:_)
@strawberrycream exactlyyyy!!! :)... let's hope it will end somehow...in a satisfying way.... It would be a shame to have such a nice series to be disappointing in the end...well, we'll see O.o
@Terru_chan I FOUUND MY PEOPLE YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY OML I FOUND MY GROUP
@strawberrycream honestly people saying that JH wouldnt understand are retarded atp cause like wtf? that man accepted himself and changed for him but sure garam is some damsel in distress. Garam really is immature like the model thing really put it forward. Garam sure might felt overwhelmed but couldn't he see how JH is putting in so much effort? LIKE HE LIED TO HIS PARENTS FOR MONEY ! I cant how Garam puts himself on such a high moral place that he believes that what he thinks is right. Sure he has his trauma and nothing in this world will ever justify it but couldn't he be just a little more understanding? couldn't he just text Jh if not talk face to face? garam has really become what he hates. A person who runs away from situations like his ex and someone who is highly unrealiable like his ex. like imagine what JH has gone through. To change himself so much for the one he loves and then while walking on a risky path he is just left alone. I hate garam atp
istg seeing people treating garam like a weak little pod who is learning to walk makes me so pis*** off. "Aw i feel so bad for garam acting like a log becuase of his trauma and now is making everyone suffer with him awwwwww" LIke bi*** we forgetting that some people know JH is gay from the case? come on people be hating the ml just because he's SECURE LIKE NOT EVEN A BRAT HE IS SECURE IN HIMSELF ENOUGH TO NOT CARE AND EVEN IF IT COMES FROM A PLACE OF BRING RICH ITS NOT BAD'
@hehaiswhaha Hi sweetie :)..I sooo agree with u (to all the replies u've written)... MC is now being shameless and focused only on himself and his own fears/past trauma...but doesn't consider ML's feelings fr... and the excuse he's leaving him/giving them space (aka running away!!) for ML's sake is selfish/not logical...if he would truly take ML's feelings in consideration, he would never do that... HE WOULD TRY TO TALK IT OUT... just like ML's been planning before entering the empty apartment </3...
@Terru_chan bros packing skills are faster than his thinking skills
@hehaiswhaha bwahahaha, so accurate :D!
@hehaiswhaha omggg exactly you wrote it perfectly ,,garam became the exact kind of person he hates". he loves to blame jh for everything, while he is the only one we can see hige character development on, he is trying, he gave up his privillege and lifestyle for him, he wants to listen and talk to him, yet he will always be portrayed as childish just because he is quirky, when garam acts more like a child day by day, he is so unsufferable i just get angry more and more, and i saw raws for next chapter, and damnnn we will be even angrier:))) and yes i don't get the babying and tiptoeinh around garam either. he is a grown a/ss man who runs when things get a little complicated and can't stand confrontation. at this point it doesn't look like he wants to do better, it's like he is comfortable in his own misery and is leading jh on, cause why date him if you are gonna treat him like this. and the ,,his packing things are faster than his thinking skills" bahahahhaa xdd