I see what you mean but... Sometimes when a lot of events happened during a short period people tend to endure it but without big reaction. You’re following all the events and it’s like you were asleep... I think right know he is realizing... ok I got a baby, I am married but my study ? I am young and i am lacking. Was all of this really what I wanted...? It’s too late of course but what can you do... You get along with the events and now you are dumbfounded. Before all of this he was a normal student and now a mom... So yeah I am following you on this point but it’s new and we don’t live the events the same way... for him it was to fast and now that he realized it’s too late 😅