Comment by Blvynx on vievie02

@Blvynx touch your chest & breathe in & out. Again your faux intellectualising, victim blaming, & excusing. As I've said, I've seen these winded paragraphs that get caught up in backstory & minimise the action. Saying both matter when you get caught in rants on the backstory. Repeating psychological doesn't suddenly alter the actions of the character. I understand the framework of the actions, it doesn't remove the fact it is wrong. You always pivoting Juhyeok does nothing for your case because there's an air of victim blaming. He has a life he wants to live but someone put him at a disadvantage & he's holding him accountable. How many alphas have we seen assault him like Su-ah fears aside from him? Ever since he was a child. There's someone to blame for his life turning out that way while the other is self-imposed. I've seen mutual damage & these two aren't working on even ground because of their secondary genders. If Juhyeok was a female omega, the picture would be clear. I'm not going to ignore the power dynamic of that. You're able to see it with the old man but shut your eyes when it's your dear "mentally & emotionally challenged" Su-ah. In one statement you say he's the above whilst saying he knows how dangerous alphas can be; that shows emotion quotient & mental capacity for reasoning. Which brings me back to faux intellectualisation which insists we stay in the why to oblivion. I remember calling Azula a monster & colonialist & someone kept bringing up her parental wounds & trying to minimise the harm done.

I'll always be on the side of the most disadvantaged in the system in piece. I'm not going to going to have leeway for Su-ah because he's socially advantaged & he's leveraging it. If you have a problem with my interpretation, leave it. You're the one insisting on this.

@Blvynx can't believe I bothered reading thru all this but I lowkey always look forward coz ur points were pretty reasonable amidst all these top vs bottom comments, we really can't justify one of them coz neither are in the right, but we can't also ignore that both are victims of their actions they also both contributed. Imagine if Juhyeok just accepted his second gender then he could've avoided stubbornly risking his self in a place his body wouldn't survive and none of this dependency would've happened, and if Su Ah just stepped back and accepted that Juhyeok doesn't want the relationship he wanted and refused to see his worth their situation wouldn't have ended up this trainwreck, but since neither has mentally and emotionally matured yet I guess this is the point of their dynamic, to show how they'll slowly be forced to face, accept, and hopefully grow from their own flaws instead of just blaming each other for everything.