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JojoGeneral·4 days ago

And what should I do? Like I got a group chat with some of my closest friends and they were like “let’s go swim tomorrow tooo” and I was like “I can probably” after everyone said they could and then they started talking about bringing guy friends to like they are not my friends just their friends 🥲cuz I got my boyfriend and me and my boyfriend promised not getting opiates friend genders cuz I got a bit uncomfortable knowing he had girl friends and I told him about it and he said he will stop being friends with them if I promised not having guy friends, and like these guys is like from my class I started after I met him so I didn’t want any friendship with them and now it’s just akward when I am with them so I made plans with my grandparents instead tomorrow and only one of my closest friends know about it and idk how to tell the other ones in the group chat cuz I bet they gonna be like “brooooooo” cuz I’ve been sick most of the week when they wanted to hang out and they gonna be annoyed at me now cuz of that so anyone got any idea of how I should tell them? 😭

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Li Ha
Li HaGeneral·4 days ago
@Jojo u can just explain the situation to ur bf and even bring him with ya everyone is bringing their guy friends so i don't think they'll oppose if u can't just tell ur friends ur fam suddenly has plans
Nina hereee
Nina hereeeShonen Spirit·4 days ago
@Jojo am I weird for thinking that the thing that declenched all this was when u began to feel uncomfortable with him having girl friends and then him saying that u also shouldn’t have boy friends? Am I tripping? Because for me when u start to feel uncomfortable with this thing it means ur mostly insecure(i’m not saying u are btw) generally but there is exceptions
Li Ha
Li HaGeneral·4 days ago
@Princess simple cultured weeb she's done things
Guava
GuavaThread Weaver·4 days ago
@Jojo If you don’t what to give them the real reason js tell them that you thought you were feeling better but then you started having symptoms again.
Jojo
JojoGeneral·4 days ago
@Li Ha he lives in another country 💔 (we have met)
Jojo
JojoGeneral·4 days ago
@Nina hereee 🥲 it may been a part of my insecurity?? Idkkk like I am not against it if I may be insecure but I don’t really feel insecure I just didn’t like that he had girl friends, cuz like I knew one liked him and idk about the other one she just felt weird and like I am not against him asking me to have guy friends
Jojo
JojoGeneral·4 days ago
@Guava I have one of them the real reason but she is a friend I knew since we were 9 the other ones I don’t feel good enough talking out like that because they are very straight forward with what they think
Li Ha
Li HaGeneral·4 days ago
@Jojo girl just talk with him first conversation is the key don't rush anything maybe he'll be understanding if not then u already told them u can't right?