So, ultimately, he never did anything to her. In the flashback, he asks her to 'mingle their bodies'...so, s**. Okay. So? He asked. All she had to do was say 'no, not in the mood'. He did not grab her and rip her clothes off or try to manipulate her with charms or whatever. He was quite blunt about what he wanted. Which was apparently a big shock for her. At 14? So, sheltered, then. Very sheltered, considering this is the dark sect. But is that really bad on his part? Where is the 'bad' coming from? Because he was 15 at the time? But that's an adult in this culture. Because he asked her to massage his feet? So he has a massage fetish. Nothing wrong with that. He even states he will reciprocate. He was not doing anything inherently 'bad' by asking her to do it with him. And all that leering, like with his tongue sticking out, was just her imagination running wild because she was embarrassed over the idea of doing it with someone. I don't get that. If you don't want to, just say so. Guys like him will find someone else in five minutes, because they don't care who they sleep with, just as long as they can indulge in pleasure and escape reality for a while.