Comment by arijith on The Lotus and the Lost

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 Feng become so restless felt painful in a way that went beyond romance 💔🥀. You could see how deeply the fear of losing Yi Chen lived inside him, to the point where even small moments seemed to turn into panic and overthinking. And what made it sadder was that, from Lu Feng’s perspective, this fear didn’t appear out of nowhere—it felt connected to all the times he experienced distance, separation, uncertainty, or felt like Yi Chen was slipping away from him again. That doesn’t mean every reaction he had was healthy or justified, but it made his emotions feel understandable. Seeing someone love so intensely that they start believing every difficult moment means abandonment is heartbreaking to watch. At the same time, what made their story emotional for me is that Yi Chen wasn’t trying to hurt hidon't get why people are constantly arguing over who's the worse person here. Like do y'all even realize how much Lu Feng loved Yichen? The man was ready to leave everything behind for him. He lost his father too. And honestly I get Yichen's POV as well. But at the same time wasn't Yichen supposed to choose Lu Feng too? That's kind of what people in love do. Especially when Lu Feng gave him every assurance he possibly could. I've seen real-life couples choose each other over literally everything. So I can understand why Lu Feng was devastated. And then on top of that he waited for another freaking 5 years. Is what Lu Feng is doing extreme? YEAH, absolutely. But I can't fully blame him either. He was literally abandoned 5 years ago (he didn’t hurt that brother nor the mother intentionally). His feelings of betrayal are completely valid. And Yichen wasn't out there living some perfect life either. They were both hurting in different ways. At the end of the day neither of them is innocent and neither of them is some evil villain. They both made choices that hurt each other and they are both very obviously, painfully in love with each other. So can y'all stop with the "who's worse" debates and just 

 

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