Comment by Aura on Cain_vrd

@Aura this is where I can tell readers on here are young. One of the most important things you can learn in life is empathy and empathy shows you two truths can exist at once.

he can be upset about the miscarriage and in pain. He can also not have been the best supportive partner during that time. He can be an ass**** while also not being a necessarily bad person. Good people can do bad things.

two truths can exist at one time and neither invalidates the other.

also it's not really about blame. He didn't singlehandedly destroy that relationship. She wasn't communicating and was sinking into herself shirking herself to death. We see how imperfect she is and vulnerable and self conscious and insecure. They are an example of a relationship that rots from within when you don't grow together, and allow resentment to creep in unchecked. When you cheat on your partner, that relationship and trust is over and broken before that decision is even made. The action just solidifies it