I hate seeing y'all insult and disrespect Ceaser for acting the way he does because as we just saw he was basically groomed into thinking that abuse was love and so when y'all are still trash talking Ceaser it just seems lil your trash talking victims of situations like this, and I hope y'all grow some brain and realize Ceaser is just as a much of a victim as Ruby is.
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@Ari you are correct but it DOESN'T justify what he did to ruby. It is certainly an explanation but NOT a justification. Just because he was abused and manipulated doesn't make it okay to do those things. I pity Ceasar but I still hate him to the core just as all of you should
I mean y'all are right but how can you express something you haven't experienced before. Just think about it, if He didn't experience those things i bet he'd treat Ruby right. Shouldn't the adults be blamed for the situation?
@cake. Your completely right but we still leave ceaser at fault bc his actions were completely unacceptable but we also excuse it bc he has been through major trauma and is a victim to
@Ari no?? thats all the more reason to NOT excuse his actions.. he KNOWS wat it feels like and he knows how awful it is(and proof of that is the fact that his not completely submissive to his father's words meaning that he is aware that that is not love) YET HE STILL CHOSE TO IMPOSE THAT ON HER
@scarekte what I'm trying to get y'all to understand is that manipulation, and the abuse is the only thing that little boy knows how to do due to him being manipulated and abused his entire life...I'm not trying to excuse it but I'm trying to help y'all understand that the way he acts isn't his fault. Hate him all you want but it just makes y'all seem inconsiderate and ignorant to what's
@Ari except he does need to be held accountable and u lit js ignored all my points?? Abuse ISNT the only thing he knows bcuz like I said he IS aware that what his father did to him is bad he js willingly chose to inflict that on her. And while I understand feeling bad for him, ignoring his actions as a result and trying to excuse him(which btw is what u said word for word in another comment??) is js completely undermining of what ruby went throug
@Ari is he a victim? Yes, but is he also a terrible person because of his own actions? Also yes. Ruby experienced abuse and never inflicted it upon anyone else, but Cesar is clearly a different story. Beating your adopted sibling into complacency out of love hidden behind building resentment is the trait of a horrible person lmfao. There's nothing more obnoxious than people excusing terrible people just because they find them attractive AND pitiful
@Ari I can feel sorry for him, understand him but it's not a justification for what he did. I genuinely think under better conditions and a loving family he could have been different but in life you don't get to hurt people and blame upbringing. Those people didn't hurt you so it's not fair to inflict the same pain. Ceasar is an adult, he should have been unlearning this behavior plus if he really loved Ruby, he would never dream of hurting her like that.
