Comment by ref on Blood Link - Chapter 6

Aren't you part of that as well? You are reading this

im a gay man reading a gay relationship
i am not a woman who looks at 2 men in public and thinks about how cute they look together and who would be the top.
top / bottom / switch are exclusively sexual terms, which means that by speculating on what term someone would be, you're sexualising them, without their consent, which is sexual harrassment. 
jinju barely knows mc or mc's love interest. she should not be shipping them OR speculating on who would top the other. it's disgusting.

Listen, you're not wrong - in the real world. But consider this as a kind of..fetish I guess. There is a huge market for this and we don't have to like people's fetishes but we should accept them as long as no real people are involved. These fictional characters are not gonna get hurt by it, and if you, as a reader, are offended then please just stop reading it and move on to stories that are more your taste.

that is the same exact thing as a man watching lesbian po**.
you
cannot
fetishize
a 
community.
its fuc**** disgusting. you cant fetishize black people or asians or lesbians and you cant. fetishize. gay people.

So are you saying girls can't read this sort of thing even though I'm pretty sure a girl wrote this and you're reading it right now?? Like come on, dude. I'll admit, it's disgusting to do that sort of thing in real life, but in fictional stories, where people make up all sorts of scenarios with characters, it's hardly something to get yourself so worked up over. I would understand if this were about real people doing it, but it's not, so just chill out my guy. Also, let's say girls were attracted to seeing two guys together. Don't think that's necessarily fetishizing them. Same with someone being attracted to black people or Asians. Now, of you wanna be a gay guy in a gay relationship even though you're a girl, THAT is fetishizing them. There's a huge difference between the two. As a bisexual girl who enjoys both Yuri and Yaoi, I wouldn't be opposed to a guy liking Yuri and being turned on by two girls. As long as they aren't being disgusting about it in the real world with actual girls around them or saying how they want to be a lesbian girl so they could experience that themselves, it's totally fine.