@may @Kurou Personally, I've only had one relationship in my life (my actual lover), and it really wasn't for lack of opportunity. When I met him, it just became obvious. Not that I was looking for the right person, but that being in a relationship would never have tempted me without meeting him. So I thought that maybe Heejae was a bit like that too and that's why his assumed celibacy doesn't particularly surprise me... Especially since he has a fairly traumatic past which still pushes him to flee abandonment and to survive on his own (therefore typically, to favor the fact of building himself, being efficient in his activities and developing skills rather than considering interpersonal relationships. It fits, I think.