so since someone vented here, i'm gonna vent too cuz something similar happened to me. me and my "girlfriend" were together for like 2—almost 3—years and stuff, and we were young, young—we haven't reached out teenage years yet. my mom, soon, found out abt it by reading my messages with her. my mom was like a type of person who's fine with anyone being gay or something, but it wasn't okay if her own child was like that. she began to yell at me, shout at me and stuff. she told me to leave that girl alone, which i did. i explained it to her properly, and we had no contact UNTIL i tried to find a way to text her on other platforms—basically fighting for our relationship. my mom doesn't know any sh** that i still kept in contact with her. it broke my heart cuz i was planning to tell my mom that i also like girls, cuz i thought that she would be okay and be understanding but i guess i thought wrong. now, that girl has a boyfriend. we still messaged each other here and there, but we're not close anymore—we're losing contact w each other. not gonna lie, she was my greatest, internet love—we met cuz my cousin was friends with her. i can't move on from her, well, not in a romantic way. i can't move on from her cuz we also built a friendship bond, we understood each other, and stuff. i also can't get over the fact that i thought my mom was the kind of person who will accept their child with full arms and no doubt, guess i was wrong. meanwhile, the girl's mom knows about me and accepts the two of us back then so yeah. idk, man, maybe in another life me and that girl are still together... but, hey, gotta move on w life, right? things like this happens—not to everyone, but some.
Comment by rienaissance on Cherry Blossoms After Winter - Chapter 55
4 Replies
@rienaissance honestly no offense but fu** your mom, real love is hard to find and i fuc**** hate when parents think they know better just becasue they spawned us..my family is not the best, we mind our own businesses because along the line we've accepted that it is wat it is, my boyfriend's family is a fuc**** nightmare, especially his father but thankfully he's cut his contacts with that man. don't force yourself to be understanding if you are hurting, that's all sweetheart
@rienaissance I know that sometimes it's hard and relationships come and go and I know I can't understand what you've been through because I've never had that kind of deep relationship with my previous partners that why I can only say it's going to be okay someday [pat pat] 

@rienaissance I'm 34 and a mum of three, im a bisexual woman who happened to marry and fall in love with a man. But, if you ever need a mothely figure for advice, to talk or just vent to feel free to reach out to me. I'm more than happy to be there for you.