Comment by Paro on Xhang

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@Xhang I agree with you, but at the same time that thing happened wayyyy back, even before Dojin met Hyesung! Like Dojin didn't see Hyesung suffer, he maybe saw the panic attacks and heard the story but didn't see that happening in front of his eyes. Also Dojin grew up in a very loving super rich family, he maybe feel sad and grief for Hyesung but never ever would realize how traumatized his life was. Just because you hate someone, doesn't mean people around you should hate that person too!
It's like the person who had a happy family and never abused, can't feel/relate to the exact pain of a person who's been abused. Dojin did what he grew up seeing, 'love' is what he offered to Hyesung also, when he was sassy and running away from his baby too. He didn't judge, he waited patiently. I hope you get my pov!😇
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@Paro this is not love. this is being selfish. if dojin cares about hyesung, he shouldnt do something that hyesung is uncomfortable with and lying to him. who in their right mind would go behind their lover's back to their parent who left them with an abuser and even with their child, who doesn't know all that trauma? like are we for real? just because he grew up in loving house doesn't make this ok. there is a thing called empathy. and if someone thinks it was reasonable for dojin to act like that and hyesung trauma being excused, overlooked like that, there is smth wrong with you too.