@ASDFGHJKL well they cut the part out to keep it short but the reason why she have a pretty dress and others don't is when they were dressing up she actually went ruffian mode slapping the maids and stuff and changed outfits like 6ish times before deciding on this and as for the overanalyse, this series is developing on the basis of misunderstanding so you'll see it extremely often literally every character will do that except m
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