Comment by BLUEBERRY on Defense Mechanism - Chapter 33

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I feel like if you still get affected that much by your ex, you shouldn't be in a relationship. especially if ur not sure that you won't be swayed by them.
It shows that he's still a bit uncertain about his feelings for Yul. If he truly loved him he'd be more than sure he won't be swayed by his ex. I hope there won't be any cheating trope because I might have to drop it.
(Feel free to correct me if i'm wrong, I don't have much experience in dating i've only ever been with one girl).

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TheRealTanakaMember·2 years ago

@BLUEBERRY it's best to save the assumptions for later because we (the audience) know absolutely nothing about their backstory. Saying you can't be emotionally swayed by an ex is unrealistic. People form attachments and trauma bonds for various reasons and they can be hard to break. I'm not saying he should cheat, I'm saying that painful feelings such as heartbreak, anger, and resentment can be buried deeply and can easily resurface if you have to face the source head on. Just like Yul had issues with his ex when they first met; Suho has issues with his ex too. It's what keeps the story interesting....

BLUEBERRYMember·2 years ago

@TheRealTanaka thank you. I appreciate this point of view. hopefully he moves on and able to talk to yul about his struggles so there won't be any misunderstandings between the in the future.

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