@Purpose That's some real bs for sure. Toys and cawck aren't "the same" nor "even" for many women (even men know this much).
As for what women experiment, you can look into this publication : "Women’s Experiences of Different Types of Org****—A Call for Pleasure Literacy?"
As for what women experiment, you can look into this publication : "Women’s Experiences of Different Types of Org****—A Call for Pleasure Literacy?"