@Montii I see what you're saying, and I agree that defending himself shows he's strong and capable of taking care of himself. It’s clear that separating from the source of pain, in this case, the black-haired person, is a form of self-care, especially if staying in that relationship continues to hurt him. And I think it’s amazing that he found someone who allows him to be himself and brings him peace.
that said, I also think it’s important to remember that relationships, especially long-term ones, are complicated. Healing doesn’t always happen overnight, and while it might seem like a fresh start with someone new is the best solution, there’s also a lot of room for growth in a person’s journey—whether that's through a new relationship or possibly reconciling with the past if it’s done in a healthy way? but both is still fuc*** accept that!!!
that said, I also think it’s important to remember that relationships, especially long-term ones, are complicated. Healing doesn’t always happen overnight, and while it might seem like a fresh start with someone new is the best solution, there’s also a lot of room for growth in a person’s journey—whether that's through a new relationship or possibly reconciling with the past if it’s done in a healthy way? but both is still fuc*** accept that!!!