The problem that I have with this character is that he's not physically abusive even in the book somehow he never comes out as if he's forcing himself, which is more terrifying because he knows how to talk and he knows how to insult without actually insulting you and that is his strength. also add the fact that he has a really harsh vibe about him by the way his eyes can see into your soul and I think that's also the reason why he's so commanding it then the way he talks could you combine all that if you understand, why is it that he's such a character that is so terrified because he's not violence and funny that in the novel never has an outburst of violence only he did once in the novel but if I just is so difficult to hate him completely because you also getting ties by his eyes