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@expensivegirl If, as Tei observed, harem did filled with aim for a political unification, with people from many different places, not only Shukara's type and taste—which is suspiciously look a lot like Tei—that would be a fair point. Here, it's kinda look less about being forced into something and more about turning the situation to ur own advantage. Otherwise, BWAT would not specifically shows Shakura acquiring a male concubine and spending time with him, and his harem is carefully arranged rather than randomly selected.

 And his reaction when Tei learns about his concubines is less of a reassuring "don't worry, they're not important to me," and more like "they're not important to YOU,"

 Of course, the aim here is still not to make Tei feel uncomfortable, but he still don't give him a specific explanation and it's as if he is just telling him what he should do, and as I said, this isn't about caring for Tei, but rather about idolizing his existence and portraying him not as a person with feelings, but as someone whose only task is to stand by him without worrying, without interfering in things, and to focus on being his beloved.
I just don't wanna die before seeing the final ep of tbnf🫩

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@luvformery

I agree with all of what you said. I think the miscommunication here is the obvious root problem: they both have assumptions about the other that are not cleared up for now because they don't have an open discussion about it. It is clear that Shuraka respects Tei a great deal, but he doesn't know him; beside the fact a dozen years have passed since they last saw each other, he never tries to put himself in his shoes, starting by understanding his culture and where he comes from, and what it means for a man like him to find himself in this kind of situation. It is obviously linked to the way the fight for the throne happened and the way he was raised at the Padisha, but as long as Shuraka fails to try to really understand Tei, they will keep going in circles and the misunderstanding and anguish will deepen.

Now as for Tei, I think his biggest mistake is never asking questions. It is clear that even though he is "beneath" Shuraka when it comes to hierarchy, there are little to no chance that Shuraka wouldn't answer his questions about his standing here, his role, and what he's supposed to do (beside "stay by his side" of course), because even if Shuraka thinks Tei shouldn't bother with anything he considers would be a burden for him, he has every reason for Tei to know which position he holds in terms of power, only just to protect himself when Shuraka isn't around. I think it will be addressed soon because it's usually an important plot point, and we'll see how it goes.