My aunt n uncle both treated me bad as a child till teenage n always reacted like I was a thorn to their sight n hurt me in every way u can hurt a child other than physical violence n now that they're older n me too more grown up n that they stopped acting the way they did, they expect me to have joyful conversations with them n show them respect like bit*hes think I'm some saint or smth? Like not badmouthing them n still responding politely to them is still already me giving a lot of respect considering their attitude towards me all these yrs so those mfs ain't getting nothing more or do y'all think I'm being too much like my fam says n letting my hatred get in the way of familial ties, like idk anymore so what r y'alls take on this? should I be more forgiving n let go of what's in the past cause everyone gotta move on n at some point n not keep being bitter abt what's done n let go?
