@tiniwini that's a bullshit excuse. realizing your behiavior is problematic is step one. staying idle and not willing to understand the root of the problem and why you have these behavioral patterns is a you problem that you need to fix. and if therapy doesn't work for you, you either need to find a new therapist or you're not putting in the work to change.
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@delusional af sorry I didn't mean to press the angry one 
@delusional af this is such a naive take. I am saying this as someone who handle psychiatric patients. NOT EVERYTHING CAN BE SOLVED BY THERAPY. He knows why he's fuc*** up. He knows his origin story. He can't heal beacause no one in his life has shown him what unconditional love is. His parents never showed him that, that's why he don't know how to love. And all his past lovers expect something more from him. Th only time he had a breakthrough was when Namwoo finally decided to love him without expecting anything in return. That's how he eventually healed. Even if he have plenty of therapist, it won't work if he doesn't believe in unconditional love and that he's capable of love.