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A DisappointmentMember·2 years ago
Hi everyone I just wanted some advice (gonna give them nicknames) so me and my ex's brother giggles (a nickname for him)  has been talking, his a nice guy always caring for me and stuff, and recently I started to develop feelings for him. I don't think its right to date him because well his my ex's brother, and just to let you all know my and my ex have broke up for 4 months now,  and I have never cut off contact with giggles, we always talk, he was basically my best friend, he gave me advices on me and my ex's relationship when I needed, and I would do the same for him and his bf (him and his bf broke up a few months ago) and he had started calling me nicknames like "darling" and "shortie", I fall for people really fast, I told him that but he never stopped and wasn't bothered by it, he even suggested to try amd date, But I said no cuz his my ex's brother. He also sent his brother a screenshot of him saying my ex wanted to try again and I said no, he laughed cause of my reaction and how fast I replied, he took the screenshot and sent it to his brother which he forgot to cover where I basically confessed.
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A Disappointment
A DisappointmentMember·2 years ago
@A Disappointment My ex got mad at giggles for me liking him, and he basically started to  throw stuff at him, they have problems like mental health, family, trauma type sh**. Basically messed up. Giggles basically became a person who my ex would just hurt and constantly throw thigns at him whenever he has mood swings or just mad, my ex still likes me thats for sure, but I don't and his mad at giggles cuz I like him, he also called me a fuc*** up person cuz I liked giggles, I obviously replied with "what" and he said it wasn't meant for me but I was still a fuc*** up person that went for his brother. Today my ex threw a bowl at giggles, and giggles had a cast he broke his leg while play basketball, he wasn't able to dodge obviously. And he said he was fine but I'm worried y'know? And now, I think the only way to stop this is to stop talking to giggles and part ways, but I don't wanna do that. I just don't know what to do.
WalterTheGoose
WalterTheGooseMember·2 years ago(edited)
@A Disappointment wait wait I'm confused, so giggles is your ex's brother and ex is your ex right. And ex still likes you and constantly have moods swings, threw a bowl at his brother right?
No name
No nameMember·2 years ago
@A Disappointment im sorry I didn't mean to press the angry emoji
monke
monkeMember·2 years ago
@WalterTheGoose i think it was the ex that threw stuff at his (ex's) brother.
monke
monkeMember·2 years ago
@A Disappointment IMO, I think you will have to part ways I feel like it'll escalate more so I say you lay low for now at least if you still want him that is
Blonde Guys Are Hot
Blonde Guys Are HotMember·2 years ago
@A Disappointment honestly this situation is pretty complicated. I do think breaking contact with giggles will be better. Cuz considering that the brothers live together I'm assuming y'all are still young. You can't really interfere in their family life even if you wanted too. If you end up dating him, your ex could hurt giggles even more cuz he's already doing so much even though y'all aren't dating. And reporting him to police will be hard too cuz he IS giggles's brother and it would create a big hovac at home seeing that they have a toxic household.
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