I agree, you summarised perfectly my opinion on this subject.
The only thing I would like to ad: the CNC etc. are consensual- the detail that authors and readers tend to forget. I saw a lot of comments defending SA with this argument ("it's just a kink") under the stories that doesn't depict even slight hint of communication. On authors part it shows the lack of research combined with greed- readers will buy this if they don't have knowledge to see the difference or don't care enough about it (the "just turn your brain off 🥰" types).
The only thing I would like to ad: the CNC etc. are consensual- the detail that authors and readers tend to forget. I saw a lot of comments defending SA with this argument ("it's just a kink") under the stories that doesn't depict even slight hint of communication. On authors part it shows the lack of research combined with greed- readers will buy this if they don't have knowledge to see the difference or don't care enough about it (the "just turn your brain off 🥰" types).