Comment by Nyanko on Love For Sale - Chapter 102

@Nyanko i like how it's realistic tho but i can recommend you one with a decent mom but when she first had a her child she was completely reattached from his for the first few years he lived with her and becfore that he wa slicing with his grandma thor but later on she tries her best and it's a BL too and she finds out he's dating a. guy it shows how it took her like max a week to say it doesn't matter what gender her son likes and same thing with the fathe

@Nyanko but as someone with issues with their parents i find the best thing for a child is not waiting for an apology or anything but the peace we allow ourselves after letting go , by being compassionate but also not letting them trest us like sh** again , wtv is in the past should stay in teh past , once tou accept one cant change or just see things from teh perspective of an outside person or putting oneself in their shoes , we get it , even if we don't it's okay , there's nothing wrong with hoping they change one day too but when they do it should be for themselves , when a child matures up they should no longer be the child but their own person , detachment shows maturity but disconnection and holding a grudge is childish and draining , there's nthg wrong with feeling pis*** off , we should rightfully feel so but there's a limit , one should grow out of it if they don't want to be a pathetic misersble person like their parents are.

But that depends on the depth of wounds ig.