Comment by Cloth Gown on Ms.Dululu

if my partner called me an animal, he'd be sleeping on the couch.
But I'm not in a d/s relationship; they're CONSENSUALLY acting like that. 

If you don't like bdsm, that's fine, but some people *do*, and it's perfectly fine, as long as you do it entirely consensually. 

Some examples of what I mean when I say they're a wholesome couple are:
• Aftercare
• Safewords
• Caring about each others safety, etc.