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Guys I need some advice so I like this guy alot and he knows I like him but he has a girlfriend and we're close friends should I distance myself from him or I shouldn't cuz it might send the wrong message like I don't want to be friends with him?

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ultimately, it depends on the girlfriend's attitude about your casual acquaintanceship, how long you and the guy have known each other and whether this guy you like is really worth pursuing. Some girlfriends don't like their boyfriends to have other close female friends. Not only does this strain their relationship, she may get hostile towards you (because she may see you trying to make a move on her man).

Keep in mind, if he leaves his current girlfriend for you, what is to say he won't leave you to either get back with her or another person later on?

Unless you won't interact unless you happen to be proactive, just live your life and don't give him too much thought. If they do break up, you will get a chance (though it is generally unwise to be a rebound partner).

Thank you curious reader even if he breaks up with his girlfriend I have no chance and I'm not going to be no man's rebound and he has a girl best friend that likes him so maybe they going to end up together who knows

Spoken like a proper Villainess. You definitely deserve better than being someone's rebound or mistress. 😉

So we were having a conversation and I was like next I'm going to find a new guy to like because liking a guy with a girlfriend doesn't make sense and he said he's said he was slightly offended when I said that why do u think he feels that way