And again, the "I wont be able to hold back"-thing guys say in manga because, idk, do Women actually think its hot if guys say that? Yes of course its nice to know that your boyfriend wants you phisically but this sentence gives off ra pist vibes. Of course guys can hold back. People can always say stop in the middle and then thats the end of it. Its not harder for guys to "hold back" than it is for girls and its definitely not an excuse to do things your partner doesnt want
Trying to point out sexist thoughts in manga because after reading a ton of them I realized they are pretty common. I'm not trying to attack anyone except patriarchy. Have a nice day :)