Okay so some people are being really judgemental towards the blonde one and throwing him insults he doesn't deserve:
First off,the black haired one hasn't told him he has feelings for him,SO HOW TF IS HE SUPPOSED TO KNOW??
Second: Him wanting to sleep with others is his lifestyle and if his boundarie is not kissing unless dating is something that should be RESPECTED,whether you agree with it or not.
Ex- if someone is more comfortable sleeping with you and considers kissing something that's more meaningful,you should respect that,and if you don't agree,you should talk it out with the others person(SOMETHING THE BLACK HAIRED ON ISN'T DOING. Like he's expecting the blonde guy to know what's going on in his head)
The people insulting him in the comments and comparing him to groups of people in the real world is just sad - WE SHOULD RESPECT EVERYONE'S IDEAS AND BELIEFS MORE!!