So the ml's father is just an after thought but full blame is only put on the mistress and you are "only mad" at the mistress for causing drama. Yes, I dispise her, too, vut she is not the "only" one to cause the ruin fo the family. If that shameless father was not willing im the first place there would be no room for her and no such thing as a mistress. He wad the married man and ruined his family. He was the one who made vows to his wife and family and wenr having an affair. People can only do so much that you allow them to do. If he never gave this woman the time of day she would not have felt so enbolden to fo after a married man.