@FreakyJester It's perfectly ok to be mad in this situation hun. Just make sure you're putting 'blame' where it belongs. The one in the wrong here is the sc*mbag who forced himself on two different people. You shouldn't be mad at Yechan for being unaware that someone took advantage of him as well. You should pity him. Can you imagine waking up tomorrow and finding out someone who wasn't your boy/girlfriend violated your body while you were completely unconscious? And then have your lover blame you for participating in cheating, even though, you not only didn't want it, but weren't even aware of it?..... As someone who was molested during a job interview, and wasn't allowed to file charges because 'everything was above my clothes and there was no proof...', (even though the detective said several other women tried to file the SAME COMPLAINT on the same f*cking perv*rted BAST*RD!....) I can tell you it messes you up for life. I cried and showered for hours in scalding hot water and couldn't get the feel of phantom hands off of my skin.... And my trust in strangers was shattered. What made it worse was that, that piece of cr*p was a supposed family friend. I'm sorry I came down so hard on you. You just reminded me how f*cked up our society is, where victims are 'blamed', and perpetrators walk off scot-free with no consequences for their actions. 😔
