Comment by Add86 on vevee

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@vevee I believe you're disregarding some things in these characters' dynamic: first, Su Ah made Juhyeok depend on him by exposing him (against his will and after REPEATED clear regections) to his pheromones. Secondly, Su Ah has a very unhealthy obsession with Juhyeok, whom he doesn't see as another human being, but as a projection of his childhood friend, choosing to ignore his current personality, passions, dreams or beliefs. And last... And the MOST important, Juhyeok said NO, he said STOP, and it doesn't matter if he sais it in the moment of the initiation of sexual intercourse or during it, IF the partner doesn't stop, then it's RA**. Su Ah not only didn't stop, but put Juhyeok at risk and his only "defence" was that he wasn't himself... he wasn't thinking clearly... Why? Because of jealousy, of which he isn't even rightfully entitled (Juhyeok did not fully agree to be in any kind of romantic relationship with Su Ah). More than everything that I've said, I really hope you can see that even if this is a work of fiction, it doesn't matter if your partner initially agreed to s**, if they said to STOP or communicated in any way that they are not ok with it, at any point, then the right thing to do is to imediately stop, to make sure that everithing is fine and to comunicate.

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@Add86 I dont think we should defend EITHER of them because they are both bad people. juhyeok using su-ah for s** is definitely not nice and definitely not when hes practically leading su-ah on. I'm aware that Juhyeok was very clear on not having a romatical relationship with him but it still didnt clear the fact that he tried lying to su-ah and that's what made him more obsessive over Juhyeok because he doesn't want him to leave. The more Juhyeok leaves him on, the more su-ah loses his mind. Not only that, but su-ah is also a really terrible character, not only did he force himself on Juhyeok but clearly disrespected boundaries that were clearly set since the start. None of these characters are well written and they should both get hate for their actions.
@Add86 Both of them are in the wrong if you really read the chapters 😌