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Back to my roots for some serious genuine advice. I have a boyfriend and we're in the same grade. Ive always kinda been a kid known to be good in studies tbh. Since my school is a small place i think i'm a the average type oraybe a little above that. He is a new student here. I love my boyfriend amd when he does good in his studies or even better than me i'm really proud of him but somewhere i also feel jealous too. He doesnt need to stdy much tbh, he is the type eho rarely ever studies and still manages to get good marks while i'm the type to study with all heart and soul amd still somehow lack. Dont get me wrong im happy when he does good but i still do feel jealous. I dont want to tell him this cuz he is literally just my baby and i dont want to hurt him. This jealously is eating me alive with guilt actually. Idk what to do i dont want this to harm us in any way i cant afford to lose him.

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@borderlinedumb it's okay to feel jealous of your partner don't think that it's not normal, we are humans at the end of day we can feel jealous cause you have feelings too I've been there once as well time will heal everything, trust me this jealousy will fade away as your love grows for eachother have faith in your love 🫶🙂↕️❤️
@borderlinedumb yeah, dont burn yourself out, studying together can be dates too! ask him to study with you.
@Whatever we actually study tg a LOTTTTT like whenever we have tesrs coming up or literally whenever one of us is studying we encourage the other too. I genuinely just dont want this to effect us in the wrong way
These words genuinely helped a lot 😭❤️ i just pray it fades the way you are saying it will. That's all i'll ever want cuz tbh even i want to celebrate his winning without that stupid insecure feeling of jealousy. Thankyousooooomuch ❤️❤️
@Vernon Avaritt 3 thats EXACTLY what im afraid of. I do not want THIS exact thing to happen. This has been eating me up but i do hope it works out with time cuz i literally dont want this 'me' problem to anyhow destroy our bond
@Vernon Avaritt 3 not always. I personally think being jealous is one way to confirm their own feelings towards the other. I mean from dense person's pov
@ANNONYMOUS  Let me clarify that A little bit of jealousy is cool but a lot of jealousy is a romance killer