@Bazooka not exactly. I honestly interpreted this as those manhwa tropes in straight romances. And the reason I avoid straight romance manhwa. Tho I will say at this moment I am neither white nor a man. And I've seen this trip in far to many medias now adays .. hence why I honestly saw the same trope. Even though I didn't really enjoy the fact that Shelby called it a common female behaviour. And made it a generalized behaviour. I do understand the trope since again. It's way to common in media that I've accepted it as a trope and an identifiable one. I won't deny it's also ther I'm alot of other bl manhwa's. But it's men and I'm a woman so it doesn't feel as creepy to me. Because of it was a straight and it was a woman experiencing this trope... I'd honestly drop the series and feel absolutely disgusted.. I guess that's why I prefer reading bl over gl or stright cue I can't see myself as a charcter. No u/n s*t over here