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@jisoo's wife just gotta swallow it

@Lou. yeah I guess that's it

@jisoo's wife thank u ^^

@jisoo's wife Why the he** are you and mad at yourself for loving someone? And if you want to be with that person then you'll have to find chances to talk to them. Avoiding them because you're scared will only come back to bite you later. You'll probably regret it so take your chances. I'm not saying to pop infront of them all of a sudden but start acquainting yourself with them. Maybe you're both a bit similar? Maybe you both listen to the same music, watch the same anime, and what not. You've never felt anything like this? That's great because you'll feel more of this with that person. You like them, it's simple but you feel like they might not like you, so not so simple, right? Anyways, if that person is distracting you or throwing you off your game then go talk with them and see what the fuss is about. You'll only feel like you're about to die but atleast you'll know what to do next. Chase them, leave them, whatever. Also, don't be mad at yourself okay? Being in love is your choice but falling in love isn't. What you're experiencing is love and that's so wonderful. Wish you luck!

@Closure maybe you're right. What's stopping me it's the fear of rejection and the fact that it's all so new to me.
I have tried in the past to get in a conversation with them but I go into panic mode and feel like I look stupid or awkward, so the convo ends up in trivial small talk.
They sat next to me a few times and sadly I never knew how to start a conversation, if I were to actively go up to them what should I say? I have no idea, which is why I'm scared. Thank you so much for the advice tho it made me tear up 😭❤️

@jisoo's wife The problem of rejection? That's for the future you. Not for the current you. So enjoy yourself. Fuc**** drown yourself in this newfound feeling. And this thing with your brain shutting down when you're with them? It's all because you haven't been around them much. Get to know them and be with them so much that this feeling you're experiencing feels natural. Not normal but natural. And for starting conversations remember that everything starts with small talk. So don't be disheartened you're good. JUST BE FUC**** PERSISTENT and not in a creepy way but like, in a way where meeting and talking with you is like a routine for you and them. But that's far for now. Start with small talk.

And how to do that? For starters, help them with schoolwork (or assignments). Little things matter. Be kind and most importantly be you. If I had to suggest more things then... maybe stand out? Volunteer more maybe. Make them aware of you presence. Or talk about your similar preferences, make a blend together on Spotify (Others are appreciated as well if you're scared to do this with them alone). But you don't have to do that if it's not something you normally do or if it's out of yourcomfort zone. Just remember to be you, okay? Maybe infront of this person you'd sometimes do things unlike yourself but that's okay. That happens so you're not wierd but alright. Better actually, no? Anyways, my point is no matter what Be. Yourself. Because (I hope) you want to them to love you for you, right? So go on I'll be cheering you on! (And personally, I'd be on gaurd if someone suddenly tried to make small talk. Approach with friends, wingmen if you will, and then maybe initiate talk with moral support just behind you. But again it depends from person to person so go ahead do what you want) 
And honestly, I'm happy to give advice! Love is really beautiful (even if this sounds corny)  and I'm happy one more person is able to experience this blissful feeling.

@Closure @Closure thank you for all the advice, I'll try to make it work even though we're not in the same class anymore. We were classmates only last year, though I see them often because we go to visit our friend which is in the same class as them, so eventually I run into them everyday during break. My friend could help out since she talks to them often, but I haven't told none of my friends because I know they will not be able to not be obvious, so I decided to just not tell them. Though we my class and their class will be having an activity together next week so I'll see what I can do then and try to approach them again, hopefully I won't sc*** up 😭

@jisoo's wife Honestly, go for it. Start a conversation or something. I'll be rooting for you! And no need to rush. Don't tell your friends yet if you don't want to because I totally understand it's as difficult as coming back from death for them to not make this obvious 😭. For motivation I'll share a quote for you from my favourite book-
Things are hard but remember: We can do hard things. (Good luck!!)

@Closure thank you so much!! 😭💕