Comment by C0SM1C on Sand Castle - Chapter 43

@C0SM1C Red flag magnet ? Does that sunshine bright guy from back then looked like a red flag to you? Eunsung lost interest on him bcoz he was becoming a green flag...a nice person with loves in his heart, and Eunsung hated it...Then Eunsung started to ignore him again and again until that guy actually turned into an abusive red flag guy...Can you truly blame his ex for all? I can't ever justify his abusive behaviors...But who started it? Who made him like that? It was Eunsung himself~

@Nimu yo man, lets get one thing straight, even if you get your heart broken by someone, NObody EVER has the right to BEAT SOMEONE UP especially if its an innocent like the mc's friend was. NO-one, even if you have a phobia of being loved and therefore avoids it, like the mc, SHOULD EVER BE FUC**** STALKED AND THREATENED-- and no matter how your lover neglects you, if you punch them in the fuc**** face you've made yourself equivalent to a piece of cr** so don't ever, ever try to shame the bottom for the horrors he went through with that psychotic red head
Please, oh jesus fuc*** Christ do not tell me you punch your lover if they neglect you that's literally assault like ☠️☠️ Eunsung's avoidance to love is one thing but his friend getting mauled by his psycho ex is another so wtf are you saying 'EuNSunG tUrnED hiM iNtO a rEd fLaG jUsT bY iGnOriNg hiM' y'all are acc tripping at this point help--

@C0SM1C Maybe you didn't read my comment clearly but I have said that I can't ever justified Chaewon's shi***-trashy abusive behaviour. I literally cried for his best frnd when he got beat up by Chaewon...I was crying so much bcoz Dongwo deserves the best...He don't deserve to be a part of this story filled with toxic characters... Eunsung don't deserve someone precious like him at all...Well now, If you talk about my lovelife, then I am more like in Eunsung's position...I kept going reading this story bcoz I could relate to Eunsung's situation too...But well it's not about me or my life, it's about Eunsung...He literally started feeling disgusted by Chaewon the moment Chaewon started to care for him...Eunsung said himself! If it was the case, why didn't he break up with Chaewon in that moment? If he had no interest left, he should have cut off their rltnship in that time! Bcoz Chaewon started to worse after Eunsung started to ignore him...I mean why would u even stay with the person you literally have lost all of ur interests?!? And it was same with Jiwoo too...Eunsung knew from the first how toxic Jiwoo is and that's why he liked Jiwoo bcoz he wanted fill the void in him...He stayed clingy to him even after all verbal-abuses...He kind of forced Jiwoo to like him bcoz likes badboys but then cry when he actually gets what it's comes with. He loves to play with minds of red flags-unhinged people but he don't wanna suffer for it...If things didn't go the way he wanted, he just throw them away like trashes...In the end, even Eunsung understood his faults too, that's why he apologized to Chaeon and to that girl too and promised to be a better person to Jiwoo...

@Nimu I'm so confused rn did you just say Eunsung FORCED Jiwoo suh to like him BRO and btw I hate the way you think like even if he stalled the breakup, he didn't deserve to get punched in the face, or get stalked afterwards and wdym he promised to be a better person for Jiwoo that guy's the biggest ass**** in the history of manhwa and I defo DO NOT remember Eunsung saying anything like that like if he did it would have been in a sense that 'oh, I'm inferior to you, I'll do anything to make you like me even if it hurts me' And also why bring up the girl like she's proof that he's not a bad person because they literally broke up on good terms and are still best friends?? I mean I acc understand where you're coming from with all this but truly Eunsung isn't at fault for what Chaeun Park did- maybe like the smallest bit but that guy was unhinged from the start. who th reacts like that when someone they like wants to break up like nah bro throwing hands over that is crazy Chaeun Park go getchoself into a mental asylum. If you're saying what I think youre saying and you're accusing Eunsung of giving Chaeun Park a mental illness just by ignoring him or something I'm acc gonna throw myself out the window 💀💀

@C0SM1C  I think you haven't read the whole story yet, in chapter 53, Eunsung himself apologized to Chaeun bcoz he finally accepted the fact he was in wrong and his best frnd, Dongwo is the one who agreed the most that Eunsung was the problem...Dongwo is basically the best character of this story...Well that's why Eunsung ended things with Chaeun in a better way with his apology to him...and then in chapter 54, Eunsung finally promised to be a better person for Jiwoo...Bcoz Eunsung himself has said the fact that he is the one who ruined Jiwoo more...And in the end, he apologized to the girl...Bcoz that girl was so good to Eunsung from the first, that's why he had started to feel bored of her but he didn't want to be the one to break up...so he led the way to that path by showing less attention and by being ignorant...that at a point, the girl had to break up with him...Eunsung knew all along and that's why, He apologized to her in the last too...
So now it's gonna be a very long paragraph...but I hope you read all, I know you r just confused...I just want to make it clear...

.Now about Chaeun's abusive nature, let's pretend that this story is about Eunsung and Chaeun; they are the main couple and Jiwoo is his ex...If it was this way, then obviously it would have started from when Chaeun was just a cold-distant person who Eunsung wanted so badly...And Eunsung kept following him, helped him and made him fell for him...Chaeun became a warm person who has become the literally the greenest flag...even started to take care of his hand bcoz Eunsung told him...how you think people would view them? Obviously as a total green flag couple...but then we got to see Eunsung's pov where he told us how disgusted he was actually feeling and the chapter end there...So now think, what type of comments will be here?? Obviously all types of curses on Eunsung...bcoz in this part, Cheaun is still a warm healthy person where Eunsung's mind was twisted...And then from this chapter on, Eunsung started to ignore Chaeun...Chaeun tried to spend time with him, talk to him, stay close to him...but Eunsung kept pushing him away where Chaeun started feeling devasted and pathetic like a thrown trash in the road by him. Do you think people would side with Eunsung here who is literally ignoring the seme without giving him any reason? They would have cursed him out in the worst way possible...and then when Chaeun's patients crossed all the limits and he hit Eunsung...you know what most people would say? "Deserved." Bcoz from that pov, we have been seeing Eunsung treating Chaeun so badly for a long time now...our angers and hatred on him has built up too...then Eunsung started to treat Chaeun the same way he did to Jiwoo and it was making them feel guilty for their actions to the core...

.They are human too, just how much you think someone can endure? And then when he become the worst person ever...people probably would havs dropped this story there...bcoz it had become obvious that Eunsung had completedly ruin him...Chaeun was never a healthy minded person and that's why Eunsung had choosed him but then threw him away in the middle of everything...Just what type of outcome you expect from such a person would be like?

I don't justify what he did after that...stalking and blackmailing, I am totally against it...But I was talking about that Chaeun from the very past bfr everything started...I am talking about "That" Chaeun!

As for Jiwoo...obviously it was Eunsung who wanted to be loved by Jiwoo. Jiwoo had clearly hold Eunsung that he only date "girls" and that he don't like Eunsung in that way at all...But Eunsung wanted him at any cost...and so Jiwoo told Eunsung that he can try to make him fall for him if he wants. It was totally on Eunsung's will whether he wanted to be with Jiwoo or not. He could leave Jiwoo at any moment...But he kept clingy to Jiwoo all the time and didn't even care about losing all his self-esteems too...To be honest, I like Eunsung's character more than you...bcoz I know how much of an amazing and complex character he is...The author is truly a genius to be able to make such a character like Eunsung who literally had us confused about his true nature too. It's sadden me that people thinks of Eunsung same as the typical saint naive kind ukes/bottoms like other BLs...

@Nimu I'm here Lessining to you guys calm dow