Some people develop kinks/fetishes for things like that due to personal trauma, speaking from experience. Also, no, abuse doesn't go along with BDSM (BDSM is consensual and enjoyable whilst abuse is not).
Some people develop kinks/fetishes for things like that due to personal trauma, speaking from experience. Also, no, abuse doesn't go along with BDSM (BDSM is consensual and enjoyable whilst abuse is not).