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that problem was already going when i was that age (there'll always be careless teenagers like that...), but for me personally... i just think reading s m u t so young IF YOU'RE NOT like those problematic kids who just party and get laid, it just messes up with your head cause you don't have the maturity/capacity to take such scenes (EVEN MORE IF IT'S TOXIC STORIES or some heavy s e x like some stories have). a lot of teenagers normalize toxicity in relationships now and that's sad to me (i see it a lot on reels), they shouldn't read these things until they are close to adulthood at the very least. i've read cute romance throughout my teenage years and only started reading sm** and toxic stuff when i realized i could handle it myself and i would know how to judge it and to think of it as just fiction even if it can also awaken something in you down the road. if i have a big s e x u a l appetite now as a proper adult even if i only started reading at 18, i don't want to think how people much MUCH younger than i was at the time must feel now. s e x y scenes are funny and quirky until it starts to do something to your brain and your body when you can't handle it at that age.

i know i wrote a little too much, but as an adult, i am genuinely worried about LITERAL KIDS reading stuff like this. they're definitely not ready for it. just enjoy your childhood pepe sticker

a 26yr who loves to read a lot. my dih is unfortunately fake, heh.
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@y0u4remy3ve I'm only 15... My friend is almost 16 and sh reads the most toxic stuff ever. I understand what you talking about about completely about how it could effect people. That has happened to 2 of my friends. I only read these when I find them. I usually read calmer stuff but sometimes I'll read something like this. I completely understand about the toxic relationship thing too. But it doesn't just depend on sm**. It also depends on how they were raised. If they grew up with fighting or separated parents, they will be looking for someone who can try to fill that gap. They look for something they recognize. They think they know what love is because they learned that form of "love" from their parents. Everyone has their flaws and we shouldn't be ridiculing them for it. Even if they are 10, if they are staying safe and not trying to look for relationships like that, they should be fine. I read "killing stalking" a while ago. It was a (kinda) fun minwha to read but I absolutely do not agree with the things done in it. My friend that's almost 16, read it over a year ago and she romanticize it. But she only does it for fun. She does not go too far with anything and she knows what not to do. She might be a tiny bit messed up but she isn't too bad. (Sorry for writing an essay. Thx for reading it to this point!)