@killme So real dude, personally I'm fine with s** scenes but a lot of BL's have this problem with non-consent....
I get this guy isn't bad as those other gross ones, like from Jinx, dark fall, whatever. But that doesn't mean it's still not icky. Always ask for consent in the beginning, doesn't matter if the person enjoyed it in the end, always ask. I feel like a lot of the people in the comment section don't understand the importance of consent. It's either a YES, or a NO. not a slight nod, not a "okay... I guess" not a persuasion. It can be a "YES" an "Okay" even better if it's said with enthusiasm. Just because this guy is ho*** as he** doesn't mean he has the right to skip past that part, that's gross to insinuate. Does health class not teach that anymore? A lot of the people in the comments and who read sexual BL are young, I've noticed, which I'm hoping they don't grow up to view gay relationships this way.
The dislikes you have are concerning, but I'm mostly guessing that's from your choice of words like "abuse."
I get this guy isn't bad as those other gross ones, like from Jinx, dark fall, whatever. But that doesn't mean it's still not icky. Always ask for consent in the beginning, doesn't matter if the person enjoyed it in the end, always ask. I feel like a lot of the people in the comment section don't understand the importance of consent. It's either a YES, or a NO. not a slight nod, not a "okay... I guess" not a persuasion. It can be a "YES" an "Okay" even better if it's said with enthusiasm. Just because this guy is ho*** as he** doesn't mean he has the right to skip past that part, that's gross to insinuate. Does health class not teach that anymore? A lot of the people in the comments and who read sexual BL are young, I've noticed, which I'm hoping they don't grow up to view gay relationships this way.
The dislikes you have are concerning, but I'm mostly guessing that's from your choice of words like "abuse."
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