I need to know if I am crazy because I think I might break up with my boyfriend over this and some friends say it is not that bad. I am 22 and he is 28, I live alone and so does he. The problem here is he comes up unnanounced at my doorstep all the time. He just comes to my home and then calls and ask what am I doing when he is already outside, sometimes I am not even home when he does this, he did not tell me but my neighbours told me they saw him lurk around and then leave. This happens like 3 times a week. Today I was with my brother talking about life and again what you doing he ask when he was already outside my door. I told him to stop, he should call before not when he is here but he just said he wants to see me because he misses me. I feel so suffocated right now, why cant he just call before like a normal person would? I am not crazy, right? I feel like a bad person but I am not, I would never show up at his doorstep without letting him know. I am so tired of letting him know that it bothers me and he never listens. And today he started crying because I was annoyed the whole time until he left because of how he showed up. I think I am done with him, I hate that habit he has
