Comment by Rifath04 on Love For Sale - Chapter 60

Comment on ChapterLove For Sale - Chapter 60
I get it he had it hard but come on!! Using your trauma as an excuse to hurt someone is so mean and kinda selfish. 
Im pretty sure slmost everyone who are being sympathetic towards si-eon, has never been in a relationship with someone like si-eon. I have been and it sucked.
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Aroace Handa Sei
Aroace Handa Sei·1 year ago
@Rifath04 since when did he use his trauma to hurt anyone? Sorry you're relationship didn't work out, but he hasn't done anything wrong, just because he was looking for different things in a relationship.
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He's not using it as an excuse.. he's been open about his boundaries and his feelings whether or not you agree to those terms are up to you
@Rifath04 hey there si eon has never used his trauma to ever hurt someone yk even when he was with namwoon he was open about his things, some of yall were getting mad because he build up boundaries just because one does that it doesnt mean they become a red flag or selfish what are you on
@Rifath04 I don't think he's using his trauma to hurt him, at least not on purpose. That's just the way his trauma is making him think he should act towards the people he love. He didn't want to hurt them, but he also don't want to let his love to "get in there way"
@Gogo yeah, I realised this after reading further more. I think I judged si eon too quickly 🥲
@Rifath04 you are not wrong at all. He totally is using his trauma as an excuse. He blames everything on his trauma and he has been aware that he can't love and still pursues others. I could excuse him if he was honest from the start but he totally concealed his traumas. He could have easily said to mc "i can give you anything you want except love" but he didn't. He totally fooled mc and his ex too and there is no excuse for that