Comment by Meet.. Cutie on Crossing the Line - Chapter 62

@Meet.. Cutie  The top had been very possessive the whole time and pressured Garam to do things he didn't necessarily want. He also insulted Garam for being gay, it was ups and downs, so it's understandable if Garam is suspicious at first or isn't clear about his feelings. If you don't like the story then stop reading it, very easy isn't it? (Huh sorry for the size)

@Mochii First of all, I do agree that Jaehyuk was rude, homophobic, and a playboy in the initial episodes, he was 'bad' and did 'wrong' I agree.

But, even you can notice, that Jaehyuk has changed completely, he's making a lot of effort to please Garam, and everyone on earth deserves respect, redemption, and a second chance- that's what humanity is for. But still, what Garam is doing to him now is unacceptable. I can list Jaehyuk's acts of kindness (Bringing breakfast, not coming to the dorm out of fear, taking Garam to the hospital, treating him well, buying him a laptop- and many more, medicine, etc) 
But tell me three good things Garam did for Jaehyuk, none! I don't understand why even these Manga Makers made Jaehyuk fall for Garam. With no depth or reason, Garam is outright rude and inhuman. All their efforts are one-side by Jaehyuk, which is so sad on his part. He's trying his best only to get rejected, and denied like this.

@Mochii Tell me, what do you have a say on Garam throwing Jaehyuk out of the dorm, naked? Was that justified- no, that was inhuman! Garam kicked Jaehyuk on his crotch! Rejected him badly. And the 'bonding you're talking about, then Garam pointed his middle finger at Jaehyuk- after what all Jaehyuk did for Garam; in taking him to see his hospitalized mother; can you justify that? Instead of being thankful, and calm, nicer- Garam is taking Jaehyuk for granted. 
Garam impacted Jaehyuk's mental health as well, so Jaehyuk ended up getting ed (Er*ct*le d*sf*nction), and also, even if Garam had to reject, he could have civilly done that, but no, he did reject Jaehyuk in the worst ridiculing way possible. How are you gonna justify all these acts of Garam? It's clear, that  Jaehyuk deserves better. Please, open your eyes. And see things like humans, I know this is just a manga. But the entertainment industry does impact our daily actions, emotions, preferences, and acts. So please, for g**'s sake, don't support Garam. And be human!

@Meet.. Cutie Why should Garam behave so lovingly towards Jaehyuk if he didn't want anything to do with Jaehyuk anymore and wanted distance but no Jaehyuk continued to shower Garam with his love even though he didn't even reciprocate it at the time and besides, Garam sees now well how much effort Jaehyuk puts in and he was very grateful that he was able to visit his mother in the hospital

@Meet.. Cutie Why are you so upset about a fictional person? It's a made-up story and has nothing to do with real life

@Mochii Did Garam ever thank Jaehyuk for taking him to see his hospitalized mother? No! Instead, Garam ran away to his classes, after showing a middle finger (disrespectful sign) towards Jaehyuk in the end. Garam texted Jaehyuk; 'that he could come to their dorm'- like seriously! Garam wrote as he permitted Jaehyuk to come. FYI, it's Jaehyuk's room too, evil Garam! 
Now tell me if this isn't scandalizing or not. Next, when Jaehyuk brings breakfast to Garam's every morning, is Garam ever thankful for it, even in his heart? No! He just complained, and called Jaehyuk irritating. Instead of appreciating what Jaehyuk is doing good for him, Garam is busy kicking, doing violent stuff, plus being aggressively rude towards Jaehyuk.
Of course, I am not asking Garam to be lovely toward Jaehyuk, no, instead I want Garam to end these things in a civil way. Reject Jaehyuk politely and ask him to move on, like how normal human does. But is he doing so? He's just impacting Jaehyuk's self-esteem and is a big threat to ignorant people like Jaehyuk, who are now blindly falling for an evil like Garam.
I don't even get what you're getting by supporting Garam, like he's outrightly rude, arrogant, and doing inhuman stuff. Still, you liking? Please, my friend, open your eyes and see that it's bad. And no one deserved to be treated like Jaehyuk. Not you, not me, anyone. Garam's toxic behavior must bring to an end. For the sake of humanity, and goodness! Thank you!

@Mochii I am upset because Manga, TV programs, comics, books, entertainment media shape a considerable part of the human population's worldview. When we see characters like Garam being portrayed as the main lead, with traits that include violence, toxicity, and rudeness, it sends a message that such behavior is acceptable or even desirable. 

Young minds, in particular, are highly impressionable and often look up to fictional characters as role models. When they see characters like Garam being glorified or supported despite their harmful actions, it normalizes and reinforces these behaviors in their minds. It's concerning because it can lead to the normalization of violence, toxicity, and disrespect in real-life relationships.

@Mochii Furthermore, the fact that viewers are supporting and defending Garam's actions instead of acknowledging the harm he's causing to Jaehyuk is even more alarming. It shows how deeply ingrained these harmful perceptions and attitudes have become, and it's a stark reminder of the influence entertainment media can have on societal norms and values.

So, while it may seem like just a made-up story, the impact of fiction on real-life attitudes and behaviors should not be underestimated. It's essential to critically analyze and challenge harmful portrayals in media to promote healthier and more positive societal norms. That's why I'm speaking out against the normalization of toxic behavior in this Manga and advocating for more responsible storytelling.

@Meet.. Cutie I'm not defending anyone because I really like both of them and the story has grown on me. I agree with you that films and books romanticize toxic behavior, but that won't change and such books are more there to live out your fantasies, which wouldn't work in real life. I hope you can understand what I try to say

@Meet.. Cutie It's not that he doesn't appreciate the gestures, he just is foreign to them. You already seen that his family and him are not that close. He doesn't really talk to friends, and the only person he really talked to was Jaehyuk. Plus Jaehyuk knows Garam is foreign to his new behavior. You expect him to just forgive him when Jaehyuk, would SA'd him and even blackmailed him. Please remember that, either way after the hospital visit, Garam was letting down his guard slowly by he was. When they banter and pick on each other; that's a form of them bonding. It's not a uncommon thing.