Comment by lia on Pasaike_Pingsheng

@Pasaike_Pingsheng  I've met and had to deal with people with money issues that stem from things like addictions. Whether it's biting off more than you can chew, gambling, drugs, etc etc, there are a few things that allways stay the same. If they can use you or anyone else they will absolutely milk the life out of you, and that if they don't want to change or can't consistently attempt to improve and you stay around, they rope you into their problems. Even after paying off debt he's in contact with the people he either was ripped off by, borrowing money from, or simply influenced into bad actions, he's GOING to fall back into that again. He put his wife in danger and then went no contact while "working" abroad if I remember correctly. He had absolutely no reason to do this and by leaving his wife alone and unsafe, he basically left her as fodder.