Comment by Candle on You Are My World - Chapter 8

@Candle dang your so right because all this time this Omega has never failed to disappoint me like all this time he had the opportunity to be loved, accepted but NOOO he wants to be shunned on soo badly 🤦♀️

@Candle I get why you’re frustrated, but I think this take glosses over the part that’s actually disturbing for a lot of readers. Intent doesn’t erase impact. Even if Suha thought he was “protecting” Juhyeok, he altered Juhyeok’s body and pheromones without his knowledge or consent, to the point where Juhyeok is now dependent on Suha just to stay stable. That’s a huge loss of bodily autonomy, especially for an athlete whose career depends on control over his body.

@im tired THIS! It pmo sm how Juhyeok's perspective is always being overlooked, they focuses on how pitiful the ml has become, while ignoring the mc's situation, clinging into seeking help from the ml in desperate to survive even if he doesn't like the idea of the situation, it's not being selfish, it's because he doesn't have any other choice.

@Candle Go back and carefully read chapter 4 and 5, Su Ah forced himself on Juhyeok in the guise of 'helping' him, the mc doesn't want it but he still stubbornly insisted. Juhyeok is an omega and is in HEAT, it means even if he doesn't want to he is NOT ABLE to push away someone whose pheromones become their source of survival, and just because he's a judo athlete doesn't mean he can't be vulnerable, it's like your saying superman should still be able to fight even with the influence of kryptonite. The mc is in a vulnerable state where an alpha's pheromones are a must, if the ml is morally conscious then he shouldn't have forced himself to the mc, or atleast wait if the mc GENUINELY wants his help, so realistically there IS r@pe happened.

@Candle I love juh but you made a very amazing point get it babe

@im tired Sun was a child! He didn't understand what was wrong with his body and he was scared to tell Jun because he's always wanted to be an alpha..even then Sun was thinking of Jun! It was never explicitly said that he did it intentionally since he was young.

Even then! Jun found out from childhood that Sun has been spreading his pheromones! He ran away, yet Sun keeps showing up and showing up. He did a big show and speech about never needing him, yet he doesn't see how hypocritical he's being.

Darling ain't no control of bodily functions happening here! That's not what the pheromones does! Sun has always been trying to approach him and fix things! It's been at least 15 years! Give the da** kid a chance! He's a freaking adult and goes on and on about independence but ha never made a tangible effort to stop being dependant!

And! Lest you all comfortable forgot, it was Sun's pheromones that has protected him at every interval! And Jun refuses to acknowledge that. It's a matter of not seeing it from Jun's perspective...just because I see it from his perspective doesn't mean it's right. He's literally using Sun as a c** dispenser! Disgusting behavior

@Blvynx clinging??? You're making Jun into the victim! 😂 Dude KNOWS that Sun would do anything for him and he uses that (and the fact that he unintentionally made him dependant on his pheromones) to keep him on a leash!

Doesn't have a choice?? Dude has been living life thinking that he's done sort of alpha repelling omega, yet, the moment he realizes that Sun was the reason he became angry and shut him out.

He went back to Sun and decided to use the situation to his benefit. HE'S the one getting the most out of this.

He's childish and I really want the author to write him fuc**** bowing down to all the omegas he insulted! Fu** him, just because he's situation was shi*** he decided to make it even more shi*** for everyone else! You da** well know none of us would take that sh**.

@Candle This is where your argument breaks down. Even if childhood explains how it started, Sun continued using his pheromones as an adult after he understood what he was doing and after Jun repeatedly told him to stop. At that point, it’s a conscious choice, not ignorance or fear.

@Candle  
It’s hilarious how shallow your take is 😂 You’re out here acting like Juhyeok is some manipulative mastermind using Su Ah for his own benefit, when the actual story is screaming the fcking opposite. Juhyeok is a VICTIM. He didn’t ask to be cloaked in Su Ah’s pheromones, and yet Su Ah just kept doing it. Go back and fckinh read ch 4 because it makes everything crystal clear. The school doctor asks Juhyeok if he has a mate because someone’s been continuously scenting him. Sure, it might “protect” him temporarily from other Alphas, but the doctor explicitly warns that consistent exposure messes with his pheromones and control over his own body. That ain’t some cute little “oops, my bad” moment, that’s canonical evidence that Su Ah knew or should’ve known the consequences. Stop playing the “Su Ah was a child” darn card. In middle or high school it should've already make them start to be capable of rational thought, and he d@mn well should’ve realized the impact of his action and obsession.

And all this “he’s using the situation to his benefit” cr@p? Nah, bro. Juhyeok’s clinging to Su Ah isn't exploitation, it’s DESPERATION. He literally has no other way to be stabilized and survive because of the unwanted dependency Su Ah created. You calling it “getting the most out of it” is just fan-gaslighting. You're prioritizing Su Ah’s feelings and cute Alpha tropes over basic human decency and consent. Juhyeok hates what Su Ah did, and the fact that he turns to him later is entirely about survival and making Su Ah take accountability, not just entirely for the benefits.

Honestly, your whole darn argument screams 'Alpha-centric bias'. You’re ignoring the full context of the story, romanticizing obsession, and treating legitimate victim behavior like some scandalous manipulation. Su Ah’s “pathetic” moments don’t erase his massive flaws, and your obsession with defending him is actively ruining your critical thinking. Stop looking at characters in isolation and start reading the story as a whole fcking situation, that’s where the accountability actually lies.