Comment by Warlock on Guiding Hazard - Chapter 73

Taegun has to learn that the strategies that kept him (us) emotionally safe in the past are not always the strategies that work for our whole lives. You're not a child who needs to avoid the crushing feeling of abandonment every day to be able to stand up and move forward anymore. You are an adult, you are resilient, and you can create your own home and your own family. The conviction that those old strategies and the beliefs that built them are the truth can't be sent away and replaced in just one day, but the first step is realizing and accepting that they aren't true, and committing to making the changes to shift those beliefs. The first step is to stop feeding the beliefs. Wish for and work toward a better future.