@Jaekyung_is_my_man given by how you describe jun based on how his actions affected yohan tbh none of them are good for each other, both of them have had their own issues towards each other and about yohans family it is not juns fault nor responsibility that yohan decided to scream his sexuality inside the church and it definitely wasn't jun decision to make yohan choose those things that possibly ruined yohans relationship with his family (and also we can't blame yohan for how neglecting his parents are towards him) however we can't neither blame them because again they have their own issues among themselves and to be clear if it weren't for yohan's actions (just like how he flipped out on jun about their dinner with yohans family) things would've never turned out this way, both of them were careless at that time (no one to be sided with) and jun on the other hand, based how you described him it wasn't very well declared that jun had FORCED yohan to do those thing and maybe JUST MAYBE the reason why jun spilled the coffee on yohn was because of how Yohan behaved during that moment ( i don't really know but i can sense that there were more other reason why jun did that) but nonetheless i don't really know anything about the situation in the novel but thank you sm for explaining it to me (im sorry for the long yap im just stating my opinion, and also please tell me if there were anything wrong with how I perceived the situation so that i can understand it better)