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There's this friend who can't forget his first love. He said everything to me how he met her and how he came to like her but she already has a bf etc ...
So one day he told me he's feeling sad because he saw her status in whatsapp with her bf. I said don't be sad.
Another day he told me he finally told her how he feels about her despite her having a bf and he asked her to forget about it. And he told me he won't talk with her that day onwards. And i said that's a good decision if it hurts you too much. (He always cries when he thinks about her etc...)
And today he told me he feels sad because he met her to give some tickets both of them alone. I said if you're hurting why not pass along that tickets from someone. He said he can't so it. I said okay.
I know i shouldn't say this but he feels pathetic now. Or maybe is he a masochistic? I mean why does he always do something's and cry about it. Just don't do it!!pepe sticker
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@ANNONYMOUS hammer the cold hard truth into him, she's busting nuts with another dude and if the juice was such a good squeeze then she'd be with him already,  it's cruel but sometimes you gotta feel your heart drop through your ass**** to stop deluding yourself to find peace and move on.
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@StealthyShovel yes and sometimes i feel like she's playing with him. It's just i can't tell him because he don't wanna find one fault with his perfect so called first love. And if i tell him that I'm sure he won't talk with me. He's gonna say you don't understand etc...
Actually i might not understand but i do 100% know how to not to be pathetic. Now I'm just listening to his cryings saying okay. Fine. Is that so. Etc...
I don't wanna deal with those problems 😭
@ANNONYMOUS even if she stopped clapping a** for 5 seconds to look his way and give him a fair shake, he would only crumble in on himself because of his low self confidence sooner or later, that ship was doomed from the start but maybe that's just me?, I have too much pride to accept being sloppy seconds but it sounds like he's a hopeless simp so who knows what the future holds?
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@StealthyShovel yes. You're 100% right. Also he's actually lot more dense than you think. 80% introvert and 100% don't have self confidence. From what he told me when he showed his interest on her she didn't even tell him she had a bf until he asked it via some friend. only after knowing it that she told him she had a bf. Maybe she was trying to two time but idk pepe sticker
@Yewik Chettri ikr. Thank you for agreeing with me. I wanted to share this with you guys for a long time.😭