Comment by Greenbean on Fucking Journey to the West - Chapter 18

@Greenbean I need y'all's recs desperately. I need to read a bl with a kind, mature, maybe a bit more feminine top and bratty bottom

@Greenbean uh not necessarily what you might be looking for but "Bouzu to kumo" is also based on a folk tale/fairytale, and whoever uploaded that manga has a few more manga with similar plots

The author Mishima Kazuhiko makes bl that's almost exclusively with small tops and big bottoms, or more feminine tops with masculine bottoms. The authors works can be found on mangabuddy so easy peasy