Comment by Veil on Darknezz

@Darknezz The weird thing here would be not having relatives that are young and people knowing you're a kind person, credibility is what matters, in society it works like that, I don't really like discussing this much because it's a weird discussion and I would never say that... I would reword it a different way though, instead I'd say that you could be their legal 'guardian' or their fake parent but the one acting as such, if a kid was abandoned and you or I saw them, things could play out differently, I for myself would pity the kid and my own heart would want to help them, I would not blatantly say those words of loving a kid when I myself just met them, one cannot say or should not feel that way in their first encounter, now given if someone did take an orphan in and helped them in their own respective ways and didn't make things weird or say things in public about that or even brag about it then sure I guess, but the problem is that humans are known for being twwisted, malice, distorted intentions. Humans are not perfect but they're neither saint. Also laws exist because it has happened or it could happen, young ones also know nothing, adults do know and can have bad intentions, also it's preffered if it's a woman and a man that are a married couple, it's preffered that way because it's naturally how things work, there's exceptions but the same is applied.